Making a difference by being yourself, Albert Cashier and Jennie Hodgers, a real life ordinary hero.

Did you ever feel that to make a difference you needed to do something extraordinary?

That you would need a special kind of superpower not available to ordinary people?

Or that ordinary people are rarely extraordinary compared to people like Elvis, Nelson Mandela or Annie Lennox? 

Thinking we cannot make a difference without doing something magnificent can often blind us to the many ordinary people who paved the way for what we take for granted in an “enlightened world”.

This month I have been looking up extraordinary Irish female history makers in preparation for a new course for the autumn and one of the most extraordinary women I have come across (and there are many!)  is one Albert D. J. Cashier, who was born Jennie Irene Hodgers,  on December 25th, 1843, in Clogherhead, Co. Louth.

As a young emigrant, Jennie adopted a male persona somewhere between leaving Ireland and arriving in America. In August 1862, Cashier, as Jennie was then known,  enlisted in the Union army and was commended for bravery in combat in battles in Louisiana, Tennessee and Missouri.

Jennie, as  Albert,  was one of several hundred women fighting as male during the Civil War.  Whether it was a gender issue, or one of accessing a career with pay and opportunities, it cannot have been easy to maintain a female  physical gender undetected but Albert made  up in bravery what he was short of in stature.

After a remarkable term of service, Albert mustered out of the army and continued to work and live identifying as male, receiving a military pension for service to the army during the war after which he settled and worked as general handyman in Saunemin, Illinois. Although some close friends knew his physical gender, it was not until a car accident in 1911 that it became public knowledge and his secret became a sensation in the press for the next few years.

The real tragedy was to be what happened when, despite the ardent support of his fellow soldiers and veterans, Albert was declared insane, and forced to live in Watertown State Hospital.

C.W. Ives who was a comrade during the war was to recount his dismay when he met the older Cashier saying “I left Cashier a fearless boy of 22…when I went to Watertown, I found… a frail woman of 70, broken because, on discovery, she was compelled to put on skirts”.

This extraordinary person was forced to become “ordinary”, despite displaying amazing courage, tenacity and service. And in the forcing of the “norm”, Albert lost the will to live and in  1915, Cashier died  and was buried with full military honours and was buried in Saunemin, where he had settled and made a life in his later years.

How does an ordinary girl, born into a small fishing village in Ireland, illiterate and impoverished, find the courage and determination to create a new persona, a new identity, a new life of service and carve herself a role in the formation of the United States of America?

What did Jennie Hodgers tap into to create this amazing lifestory that inspired so many women to take up arms and become soldiers? 

Was Albert always afraid of being discovered? 

Sometimes we have to acknowledge that fear is not going to go away, so we have to do things whilst still being afraid.

But what if Albert Cashier just took the fear and ran with it, then learned to live with it but NOT be ruled by it, and in so doing, created an life more authentic than one married with several children, bound by domesticity and servitude at home, when the real calling was to a life of adventure?

What if Jennie/Albert was just an ordinary person who mustered up the courage to live a life that seems extraordinary to us, yet to many veterans who went on to work at manual labour after the war, it was an ordinary life, lived out in peacetime earning a living without a fanfare.

If you could muster up the courage to do ONE THING this week that you have always wanted to do, what would that be? 

It may not be as adventurous as Jennie Hodgers or Albert Cashier stowing aboard a ship and going to war, but what if  we could feel the fear and do it anyway?

Would that be a nod of thanks to the amazing women that went before us, creating new paradigms and frontiers so our lives are less restricted? 

I am guessing that no matter what our “one thing” might be, we will not be in danger of being shot by a musket or blown up by a canon, and it may involve something far more genteel like a red face if we ask for a raise, or the risk of a rejection if we submit a piece of writing to a competition.

So what about thinking this week about people like Albert Cashier and asking yourself “If they can do that?  how will I do this? ……see what happens 🙂

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Acres of Diamonds and Russel Conwell

Did you ever get to the end of something you really loved doing and find yourself thinking “what next?”

Does being your own boss mean you could do with a poke in the next direction?

Do you ever forget to take your own advice?

After finishing a really lovely course of The Artist’s Way in the Seamus Ennis center recently, the novelty of not getting up on Saturday morning much less not spending Friday night getting handouts/film clips/glitter and “stuff” ready, has already worn off 🙂

Courses traditionally start in January and September (totally out of synch with nature but that’s another blog post entirely) so it will be September before we start up again.

So what’s next here at Creatively Thinking?

I have to admit I need to listen to my own advice at times, particularly using Russell Conwell’s Acres of Diamonds Story which forms a vital part of the introduction to any of the courses I facilitate. The basic premise is that everything you need is under your feet and to stop looking over the garden wall at your neighbour’s lawn and water the grass you are standing on. (The full length audio and text version available on the link below)

http://www.americanrhetoric.com/speeches/rconwellacresofdiamonds.htm

I started out the personal development journey as a life coach, became a trainer, a mentor, a facilitator and a laughologist (yes, it does exist). But coaching has always formed a major part of what I do, whether one to one or in a group and my favourite way to coach is by telephone, so clients can access the session in their pj’s, with a mug of tea and in their slippers. Having a Tesco phone that allows me unlimited calls for 15 euro a month takes care of the cost involve (but you do make your own tea!)

You wouldn’t buy a pig in a sack so I like to offer complimentary goal setting sessions to people to see if they would enjoy the process and if what I do would be of benefit.

I enjoy working in this way because it is positive, practical and great fun, clients take time to make their goals a reality and discover all sorts of skills, talents and experiences along the way. It is a privilege to be a part of that journey and I have NEVER come away from a coaching session without being inspired by the amazing things people are capable of! 🙂

Being self employed has its challenges for sure, but the greatest benefit is the ability to move between activities and switch projects, and for those of us who like to do more than one thing, this is a gift! 🙂

So for the next four months, I will be working with a small number of clients setting goals and making changes as well as training with local authorities and voluntary organisations doing what I love best, empowering people who care to take better care of themselves 🙂 Simples! 🙂

For more information and/or to book a complimentary coaching session contact me on creativelythinking9@gmail.com, text 0892329373 or pm on facebook 🙂 🙂